- It must be understood that
while this information was furnished by reliable
sources,
there are many different opinions between those of
Muslim faith, and any Muslim contemplating cremation or
burial at sea should seek proper council .
Rules
About Burial of the Dead Body
620. *
It is obligatory to bury a dead body in the ground, so deep
that its smell does not come out and the beasts of prey do not
dig it out, and, if there is a danger of such beasts digging
it out then the grave should be made solid with bricks, etc.
621. If
it is not possible to bury a dead body in the ground, it may
be kept in a vault or a coffin, instead.
622. The
dead body should be laid in the grave on its right side so
that the face remains towards the Qibla.
623. *
If a person dies on a ship and if there is no fear of the
decay of the dead body and if there is no problem in retaining
it for sometime on the ship, it should be kept on it and
buried in the ground after reaching the land. Otherwise, after
giving Ghusl, Hunut, Kafan and Namaz-e-Mayyit it should be
lowered into the sea in a vessel of clay or with a weight tied
to its feet. And as far as possible it should not be lowered
at a point where it is eaten up immediately by the sea
predators.
624. If
it is feared that an enemy may dig up the grave and exhume the
dead body and amputate its ears or nose or other limbs, it
should be lowered into sea, if possible, as stated in the
foregoing rule.
625. *
The expenses of lowering the dead body into the sea, or making
the grave solid on the ground can be deducted from the estate
of the deceased, if necessary.
626. *
If a non-Muslim woman dies with a dead child, or soulless
foetus in her womb, and if the father is a Muslim then the
woman should be laid in the grave on her left side with her
back towards Qibla, so that the face of the child is towards
Qibla.
627. It
is not permitted to bury a Muslim in the graveyard of the
non-Muslims, nor to bury a non-Muslim in the graveyard of the
Muslims.
628. It
is also not permissible to bury the dead body of a Muslim at a
place which is disrespectful, like places where garbage is
thrown.
629. It
is not permissible to bury a dead body in a usurped place
nor in a place which is dedicated for purposes other than
burial (e.g. in a Masjid).
630. *
It is not permissible to dig up a grave for the purpose of
burying another dead body in it, unless one is sure that the
grave is very old and the former body has been totally
disintegrated.
631. *
Anything which is separated from the dead body (even its hair,
nail or tooth) should be buried along with it. And if any part
of the body, including hair, nails or teeth are found after
the body has been buried, they should be buried at a separate
place, as per obligatory precaution. And it is Mustahab that
nails and teeth cut off or extracted during lifetime are also
buried.
632. If
a person dies in a well and it is not possible to take him
out, the well should be sealed, and the well should be treated
as his grave.
633. If
a child dies in its mother's womb and its remaining in the
womb is dangerous for the mother, it should be brought out in
the easiest possible way. If it becomes inevitable to cut it
into pieces there is no objection in doing so. It is, however,
better that if the husband of the woman is skilled in surgery
the dead body of the child should be taken out by him, and
failing that, the job should be performed by a skilled woman.
And if that is not available, a skilled surgeon who is the
mahram (one with whom marriage cannot be contracted) of the
woman should do it. And if even that is not available a
skilled man who is not mahram (one with whom marriage can be
contracted) should remove the dead child. And if even such a
person is not available the dead body can be brought out by
any unskilled person.
634. If
a woman dies and there is a living child in her womb, it
should be brought out in the safest possible way, even if
there be no hope for the child's survival. The body of the
mother should then be sewn up.
Mustahab
Acts of Dafn
635. It
is Mustahab that the depth of the grave should be
approximately equal to the size of an average person and the
dead body be buried in the nearest graveyard, except when the
graveyard which is situated farther is better due to some
reasons, like if pious persons are buried there or people go
there in large number for Fateha.
It is
also recommended that the coffin is placed on the ground a few
yards away from the grave and then taken to the grave by
halting three times briefly. It should be placed on the ground
every time and then lifted before finally it is lowered into
the grave at the 4th time. And if the dead body is of a male,
it should be placed on the ground at the 3rd time in such a
manner that its head should be towards the lower side of the
grave and at the 4th time it should be lowered into the grave
from the side of its head. And if the dead body is of a female
it should be placed on the ground at the 3rd time towards the
Qibla and should be lowered into the grave sidewise and a
cloth should be spread over the grave while lowering it. It is
also Mustahab that the dead body should be taken out of the
coffin and lowered into the grave very gently, and the
prescribed supplications should be recited before and during
burying the dead body; and after the dead body has been
lowered into the niche, the ties of its shroud should be
unfastened and its cheek should be placed on earth, and an
earthen pillow should be done up under its head and some
unbacked bricks or lumps of clay should be placed behind its
back so that the dead body may not return flat on its back.
Before closing the niche, the person reciting the talqin
should hold with his right hand the right shoulder of the dead
body and should place his left hand tightly on its left
shoulder and take his mouth near its ear and shaking its
shoulders should say thrice: Isma' ifham ya .......here
the name of the dead person and his father should be called.
For example, if the name of the dead person is Muhammad and
his father's name 'Ali it should be said thrice: Isma 'ifham
ya Muhammad bin 'Ali. And then he should say: Hal anta
'alal 'ahdil lazi farqtana 'alayhi min shahadati an la ilaha
illal lahu wahdahu la sharika lah wa anna Muhammadan sallal
lahu 'alayhi wa Alihi 'abduhu wa Rasuluhu wa sayyidun
nabiyyina wa khatamul mursalina wa anna 'Aliyyan Amirul
mu'minina wa sayyidul wasiyyina wa imamu nif tarazallahu
ta'tahu 'alal 'alamina wa annal Hasana wal Husayna wa 'Aliyyabnal
Husayni wa Muhammadabna 'Aliyyin wa Ja'farabna Muhammadin wa
Musabna Ja'farin wa 'Aliyyabna Musa wa Muhammadabna'Aliyyin wa
'Aliyyabna Muhammadin wal Hasanabna 'Aliyyin wal Qa'imal
hujjatal Mahdi salawatullahi 'alayhim a'i'mmatul mu'minina wa
hujajullahi'alal khalqi ajma'ina wa a'immatuka a'immatu hudan
abrar ya ........(here the name of the dead person and his
father should be called) and then the following words should
be said: Iza atakal malakanil muqarraabani Rasulayni min 'indillahi
tabaraka wa ta'ala wa sa'alaka 'an Rabbika wa 'an Nabiyyika wa
'an dinika wa 'an Kitabika wa 'an Qiblatika wa 'an A'immatika
fala takhaf wa la tahzan wa'qul fi jawabi hima, Allahu Rabbi
wa Muhammadun sallal lahu 'alayhi wa Alihi nabiyyi wal Islamu
dini wal Qur'anu kitabi wal Ka'batu Qiblati wa Amirul
mu'minina 'Aliyybnu Abi Talib imami wal Hasanubnu 'Aliyyi nil
Mujtaba imami wal Husaynubnu 'Aliyyi nish-shahidu bi-Karbala
imami wa 'Aliyyun Zaynul 'Abidina imami wa Muhammadu nil
Baqiru imami wa Ja'faru nis Sadiqu imami wa Musal Kazimu imami
wa 'Aliyyu-nir Riza imami wa Muhammadu nil Jawadu imami wa 'Aliyyu
nil Hadi imami wal Hasanul 'askari imami wal Hujjatul muntazar
imami ha ula'i salawatullahi 'alayhim ajma'in A'i'mmati wa
sadati wa qadati wa shufa-a'i bihim atawalla wa min a'daihim
atabarra'u fid dunya wal akhirati thumma i'lam ya .......
here the name of the dead person and his father should be
called and thereafter it should be said: Annal laha
tabaraka wa ta'ala ni'mar-Rabb wa anna Muhammadan sallal lahu
'alayhi wa Alihi ni'mar Rasul wa anna 'Aliyyabna Abi Talib wa
awladahul ma'suminal A'i'mmatal ithna 'asharah ni'mal A'i'mmah
wa anna ma ja'a bihi Muhammadun sallal lahu 'alayhi wa Alihi
haqqun wa annal mawta haqqun wa suwala munkarin wa nakirin fil
qabri haqqun wal ba'tha haqqun wan nushura haqqun wassirata
haqqun wal mizana haqqun wa tatayiral kutubi haqqun wa annal
jannata haqqun wan-nara haqqun wa annas sa'ata a'tiyatun la
rayba fiha wa annallaha yab'athu man fil qubur. Then the
following words should be said: Afahimta ya .... (here
the name of the dead person should be called) and thereafter
the following should be said: Thabbatakallahu bil qawlith
thabit wa hadakallahu ila siratim mustaqim 'arrafallahu
baynaka wa bayna awliya'ika fi mustaqarrim min rahmatih.
Then the following words should be uttered: Alla humma
jafil arza 'an jambayhi vas'ad biruhihi ilayka wa laqqihi
minka burhana Alla humma 'afwaka 'afwaka.
636. It
is recommended that the person who lowers the dead body in the
grave should be Pak, bare-headed and bare-footed and he should
climb out of the grave from the feet side. Moreover, persons,
other than the near relatives of the deceased, should put the
dust into the grave with the back side of their hands and
recite the following: Inna lillahi wa innailayhi raji'un.
If the dead person is a woman, her mahram and in the absence
of a mahram her kinsmen should lower her in the grave.
637. It
is Mustahab that the grave be square or rectangular in shape
and its height equal to four fingers' span. A sign should be
fixed on it for the purpose of identification and water should
be poured on it, and then those present should place their
hands on the grave parting their fingers and thrusting them
into earth. Then recite Surah al-Qadr 7 times and pray
for the forgiveness of the departed soul and say: Alla
humma jafil arza 'an jam bayhi wa as'idilayka ruhahu wa
laqqihi minka rizwana wa askin qabrahu min rahmatika ma
tughneehi bihi 'an rahmati man siwaka.
638. It
is Mustahab that when the persons who attended the funeral
have departed, the guardian of the dead person or the person
whom the guardian grants permission should recite the
prescribed supplications for the dead person.
639. It
is Mustahab that after the burial, the bereaved family is
consoled, praying for their well being. However, if the
condolence is given long after the event, and if it serves to
refresh the sorrowful memories, then it should be avoided.
It is
Mustahab that food be sent to the members of the family of the
deceased for 3 days. It is, however, Makrooh to take meal with
them in their homes.
640. It
is also Mustahab that a person should observe patience on the
death of his near ones, especially on the death of his son,
and, whenever the memory of the departed soul crosses his
mind, he should say: Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un
and should recite the holy Qur'an for the sake of the
departed. A man should visit the graves of his parents and
pray there for the blessings of Allah for himself and should
make the grave solid so that it may not be easily ruined.
641. *
As a matter of precaution, one should refrain from scratching
one's face or body, or uprooting one's hair to display the
grief. However, slapping one's head or face is permitted.
642. *
It is not permissible to tear one's clothes on the death of
anyone except on the death of one's father and brother, though
the recommended precaution is that one should not tear one's
clothes on their death also.
643. If
a wife mourning the death of a husband scratches her face
causing blood to come out, or pulls her hair, she should, on
the basis of recommended precaution, set a slave free, or feed
ten poor, or provide them dress. And the same applies when a
man tears his clothes on the death of his wife or son.
644. *
The recommended precaution is that while weeping over the
death of any person one's voice should not be very loud.
Namaz-e-Wahshat
(Prayers to be offered for the departed soul on the night of
burial)
645. It is befitting
that on the first night after the burial of a dead person, two Raka'ats of
wahshat prayers be offered for it. The method of offering this prayers is as
follows:
In the first Raka'at,
after reciting Surah al-Hamd, Ayatul Kursi should be recited once and in the
second Raka'at, Surah al-Qadr should be recited 10 times after Surah-al-Hamd;
and after saying the Salam the following supplication should be recited:
Alla humma salli 'ala Muhammadin wa Ali Muhammad wab'ath thawabaha ila qabri
......(here the name of the dead person and his father's name should be
mentioned).
646. Wahshat prayers can
be offered in the night following the burial of the dead body at any time, but
it is better to offer it in the early hours of the night after 'Isha prayers.
647. * If it is proposed
to transfer the dead body to some other town or its burial is delayed owing to
some reason, the wahshat prayers should be deferred till the first night of
its burial.
Exhumation
648. It is haraam to
open the grave of a Muslim even if it belongs to a child or an insane person.
However, there is no objection in doing so if the dead body has decayed and
turned into dust.
649. * Digging up or
destroying the graves of the descendants of Imams, the martyrs, the Ulama and
the pious persons is Haraam, even if they are very old, because it amounts to
desecration.
650. * Digging up the
grave is allowed in the following cases:
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When the dead body
has been buried in an usurped land and the owner of the land is not
willing to let it remain there.
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When the Kafan of
the dead body or any other thing buried with it had been usurped and the
owner of the thing in question is not willing to let it remain in the
grave. Similarly, if anything belonging to the heirs has been buried along
with the deceased and the heirs are not willing to let it remain in the
grave. However, if the dead person had made a will that a certain
supplication or the holy Qur'an or a ring be buried along with his dead
body, and if that will is valid, then the grave cannot be opened up to
bring those articles out. There are certain situations when the exhuming
is not permitted even if the land, the Kafan or the articles buried with
the corpse are Ghasbi. But there is no room for details here.
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When opening the
grave does not amount to disrespect of the dead person, and it transpires
that he was buried without Ghusl or Kafan, or the Ghusl was void, or he
was not given Kafan according to religious rules, or was not laid in the
grave facing the Qibla.
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When it is necessary
to inspect the body of the dead person to establish a right which is more
important than exhumation.
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When the dead body
of a Muslim has been buried at a place which is against sanctity, like,
when it has been buried in the graveyard of non-Muslim or at a place of
garbage.
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When the grave is
opened up for a legal purpose which is more important than exhumation. For
example, when it is proposed to take out a living child from the womb of a
buried woman.
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When it is feared
that a wild beast would tear up the corpse or it will be carried away by
flood or exhumed by the enemy.
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When the deceased
has willed that his body be transferred to sacred places before burial,
and if it was intentionally or forgetfully buried elsewhere, then the body
can be exhumed, provided that doing so does not result in any disrespect
to the deceased.
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